November 08, 2024

psychology of children

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Niki
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In this article, we will discuss some strategies for treating children appropriately.

1- Reasons for children's talkativeness

One of the most important reasons for children's talkativeness is curiosity and the desire to know everything.

Another reason for children's talkativeness is the need to get attention.

Sometimes children's fear also leads to them talking too much.

If parents pay enough attention to their child and spend time with him/her, but their child still talks abnormally, they should look for the psychological roots of the issue. It should not be forgotten that sometimes children's talkativeness can be a sign of a problem in the child.

2- Sexual education

Never change your child's diaper or pants in front of others and teach him/her that under his/her diaper or pants is his/her privacy.

3- Do not raise a helpless child.

You are always a saboteur!!

You never listen to me!!

I asked you to do something once, look what you did. These sentences teach children to be helpless

4- Forbidden advice

Do not give the child advice directly, it will not only be ineffective but will also cause a gap in the relationship with the child.

Sometimes, give the child advice with finger puppets and through them.

5- Aggressive children

Aggressive or hyperactive children can be calmed down with stories and transformed into children who are focused and patient to listen.

The stories that the child hears are teaching them how to find solutions to life's problems.

6- Don't let others raise your child!

When you fight with your child under pressure from others.

You don't hug your baby because of what others say.

You take him to parties because of what others say and despite your baby's discomfort.

When your child is not ready yet, you try to take your child out of diapers because of others' teasing.

In fact, you let others raise your child.

Use the knowledge of others, but don't let others raise your child.

7- Child psychology for not listening to parents' words

Don't look for a child who listens to what you say.

A child who listens to everything you say will listen to what others say in society tomorrow.

How can a child who hasn't learned to say no know how to say no to cigarettes and drugs?

How can he say no to inappropriate demands when he falls in love with someone?

How can he say no to physical assaults?

 How should he protect himself when he has learned to just roll his eyes..

8- Four tips from child psychology in raising a healthy child

Avoid these four mistakes to raise a healthy child:

1- Using negative sentences (bad child, don't do it, don't touch, stubborn)

2- Asking the child why he behaved (Why did you do that? Instead, tell him directly what he did wrong)

3- Long conversations with additional explanations (advice, advice, advice)

4- Threatening the child to not love him (bad child, I don't love you anymore)

These four things lower the child's self-confidence and increase stubbornness in children.

9- Methods that are cruelty to your child, not love

1- You don't let others take care of your child!!

2- You let your child sleep in your bed and room or you sleep in his room!

3- You buy thousands of toys for your child.

4- You want to make your child a genius!

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